So, let's talk about this weekend. 

After work on Saturday, I picked up Cedrik and we came back here.  Since it had been a week, he and I almost immediately had some bedtimesexxyfun.  Following this and showering together, I made us pasta (regular sauce for me, alfredo sauce for him, since he has issues with tomato sauces), meatballs, and garlic bread.  And after this, we watched some TV and then went bed for some cuddles and sleep. 

Sometime around 2, I got up to use the bathroom and then went back to bed and could not get to sleep.  My mind NOT stop.  I kept thinking of all the shit that's coming down the pike, politically and otherwise, and how it fucking sucks that I actually finally a find a man I love who loves me back just when the world is going to hell.  I worried and worried and worried.  Finally, about 2:20 or so, I just went downstairs to the recliner.  Sometimes, when I like this, getting out of bed for a bit can help.  It kinda did this time. 

After a bit of time downstairs, i went back up, got into bed and immediately cuddled up against him.  And I did drift off.  But the rest of the night (er, morning), was kinda fitful when it came to sleep.

We got up in the morning, went for groceries and I stopped and got coffee from Rutters.  When we got back,  I drank my coffee we ate our donuts and we hung out a bit more on the sofa. We had made plans and later, in the early afternoon, after again, showering and getting ready, we headed out.  We drove 1.5 hours, roughly, towards Hershey PA-ish, to my cousin Tracy's house.  

I've already introduced mom to Cedrik, I decided to was time to introduce him to my favorite cousin Tracy.  I had called her the week before to make sure it was okay if we came to visit.  She was excited to "finally" meet someone I was dating.   She and her son Morgan (10 yrs old) would welcome me.  

Cedrik and I got there and were warmly welcomed by Tracy.  Morgan was a bit shy initially, but he warmed up to both of us (well, he's always been warm and open and talkative with me, but I think Cedrik initially threw him for a loop.  But he was fine).  That is until one of his friend rang the doorbell for him to play.  SO he put on some sneakers, and out he went. 

Cedrik and I were there a little over two hours and had a great time talking with Tracy.  And she was so welcoming and accepting of us both, which I just as I knew she'd be.  

When we left, getting onto the Turnpike, I stupidly made a wrong turn, going towards Philly instead of Pittsburgh when Pittsburgh is the way we should have been going.  So we have to to the next exit, which was almost double the distance we would have gone had I gone the correct way.  So, according to Cedrik's GPS, I added nearly two hours to the travels.  Wonderful.  At the time I was SO PISSED at myself for being so stupid.  But as time went on, and especially today when we talked about it, it became funny and we laughed about it.

Upon getting home (FINALLY) we watching some tv and hung out on the couch to relax.  then we went to bed, cuddled some and then had more relaxing bedtimesexxyfun (well, we were really relaxed AFTER the bedtimsexxyfun).  And then to sleep.

I woke up Monday a bit before him and woke him up with some more bedtimesexxyfun.  Following this, we went to Rutters, me for coffee, him for a breakfast burrito.  After this, he said he needed to go visit a friend of his here in town.  Cedrik had borrowed some money from him and wanted to go return it.  I had laundry to do, so off he went and I did laundry.   When he returned, he shocked me by mentioning a threeway with this guy he met. 

I wasn't shocked about the threeway, we had discussed his in general terms already.  But I was shocked by the suddenness of it all.  However, when he showed me the guy's profile online, it was a guy I had chatted with late last year but which petered out and went nowhere.  So we arranged for him to stop by and we had some menage a' trotimesexxyfun.  It was fun and a blast...been a while since I was in a threesome.

Following this, with the laundry done, I folded it and we showered (separately) and got ready and headed out.   Today was Mom's birthday and Howard was taking her to the Copper Kettle for Prime Rib.  He invited Cedrik and I because "you're family".  So we went, with me chauffeuring them there.  And we all got the Prime Rib and ohmiGOD it was SOOO delicious!  Cedrik not really one for steak, but even HE said how good it was and gobbled it all down.  

I tried to give Howard some money for Cedrik and my meals, but he refused.  And when they brought the desserts around, Howard said mom could have a pieced of cake, for her birthday, with four forks so we all could eat some.  Mom chose the orange dreamsicle cake, and when they brought it, the restaurant, on their own, put a lil candle on it and had it lit.  Howard and I sang mom happy birthday, quietly, because neither of us can sing.  Cedrik was out smoking.  When he returned, he still had his part of the cake there, but we told him him he missed singing to mom. (he had said at my house that since he had no gift for her, he could sing her happy birthday).  And so he DID sing it to her, much much better than Howard and I cause Cedrik is talented and has sung in choirs and musical theater back in high school ad college.    So following all this, I dropped mom and Howard off and then Cedrik and I drove to the car wash since Theo was dirty filthy (having not been washed since November).   

The original plan was for Cedrik to spend the night and then me to drop him off at home on my way to work. But he said, he'd really prefer to go back tonight, if I didn't care.  I was a bit disappointed, as I was looking forward to sleeping next to him again.  But it was fine.  I had had two night with him, and a wonderful weekend in total because of him, so yeah, I could take him back tonight.   We stopped by the house to pick up his stuff and I took him back.  Then I came back here, put he I Love Lucy channel on the Pluto Channel had the Ricardos and the Mertzs traipsing through Europe on in the background as I type this.

And that was my weekend.

POLT