So let's talk about the weekend. 

I took Saturday off.    So after work on Friday, I picked up Cedrik, and off we went to West By God Virginia...but just barely.  Just across the Potomac to Shepardstown, where we ate at the Blue Moon Cafe,  A delicious meal was had by both of us.  And honestly since my appetite's not what it used to be (because of the Ozempic), Ced ended up eating two of my six slices of quesadilla. 

Following this, on the drive home, he made clear to me that he wanted me to jump him, not only in the car right then, but even back at the restaurant.  Which he didn't really have to tell me, cause I could see it in his face while we were eating.   And I felt the same way.  Also, on the drive home, I tried to maintain the speed limit, with his help, as that's not an easy thing to do being a leadfoot that I am.   And I sang my fool head off too, which made him laugh, cause even though I can't sing, that doesn't mean I WILL NOT sing, ya know? 

We got home and went immediately to bed for some frankly awesome bedtimesexxyfun.   And then we went to sleep (sleeping with him is great, he's such a cuddlebunny....but I digress....)

The next morning, we got up a little later than usual, cause, ya know, we were tired and possibly worn out. We went to Rutters and got us some breakfast and then came home and enjoyed it.   Following this, for reasons I don't recall, he decided to give me an amateur pedicure.  Frankly, he did a great job, it was very relaxing.  And we got to chat more while doing so.   Afterward he wanted me to do his feet, and I tried, honestly, I did, but I couldn't do it as well as he had...he had done it before after all.  But honestly, he did most of his feet.  Then, after this, he dressed and left to visit a friend of his in town for alittle bit.  

While he was gone, I showered, I updated my checkbook and paid some bills, getting them ready to be mailed.  And I putzed around online for a bit.  When he returned he showered and got ready.  We both 'dressed up' bit.  I mean, nothing real fancy; collared shirts instead of tshirts, nice jackets instead of hoodies, etc.   We were going to Longhorn Steakhouse to eat and he wanted us a lil 'dressed up'. 

So off we went.  Getting there before 5 pm, we STILL had a 35 minute wait.  I hate waiting to eat, cause there is SO MANY restaurants to eat, but he said it wasn't too long.  And he had a giftcard he wanted to use.  So we waited. although we did go to a Michel's store and I bought some candles.  But we made it back before I was texted, telling us the reservation was ready. 

The meal was, as always delectable.  I got a steak and fries, he got chicken and ribs with fries.  And we both had big salads and bread.  I had trouble eating all of it, but I did.  He could only about half of his (which IS unusual as he ALWAYS eats do much.  Like he says, "I'm a fat boy in a skinny body").

After the meal we went to Ollies, and bought a few things, just wandered around really.   Then we headed out, for the second reason Cedrik wanted to 'dress up' a bit: we drove to mom's cottage so she (and Howard) could meet Cedrik and vice versa. 

We were there maybe 15 minutes, perhaps a bit longer.  But it seemed to go well.  We chatted (well mom and I did, like always.  Howard and Cedrik said a little, but it was mainly her and I).  When I introduced them, I did so as "Mom, this is Cedrik.  Cedrik, this is mom." he said, "Hi mom!" and leaned in for a hug.  And when we left, he hugger her again and said, "Bye mom."   He shook Howards hand and leaned in for a bro-hug and called him by name.  

I though it was all so cute.  I hope mom's okay with it, him hugging her and calling her mom.   I guess I'll find out tomorrow when she takes me to my retina appointment. 

We came back home and watched some TV, but were tired, so we went to bed, and had more bedtimesexxyfun.   Afterwards, he had this coughing fit (he's had a cough for a lil while, doctor said it  was a bacterial infection and put him on antibiotics.)  I've never seen him, or anyone, cough like that.  For like a half hour, he sat on the toilet, coughing up phlegm into toilet paper or the trash can.  And blowing his nose, did that so much he had a minor nose bleed.  But thankfully, after about a half hour, he calmed down and we went back to bed. 

And then, less than an hour later, I woke up with my guts roiling and feeling as if diarrhea was gonna be running out my ass right that moment.  I made it up to the toilet in time, but that was the first of three times, I made it to the toilet.  And oh my GOD it reeked.  I sprayed, but...well thank God Cedrik was in the bedroom asleep.

So anyway, after that, I didn't sleep well, cause after like 20 to 40 minutes of sleep, I would wake up cause I was afraid I'd start pooping again.   Not great night's sleep...but there was some cuddling with Cedrik, so that was okay. 

I got up and decided to pass on Rutters coffee with my stomach the way it was.  So I made a cup of tea and dry toast and after eating that my stomach felt better.  Cedrik had the leftover food from Saturday for and early lunch (he had actually gotten up about 5 am to use to bathroom and then decided to have a bowl of Fruity Pebbles, so that was his breakfast) and we chatted.  After this, he went up stairs because he wanted to Nair himself again.  Yep, he uses it on his head to make it bald and he uses it....elsewhere.  Nuff said.   I helped him clean it off, cause, ya know, he can't see the back of his head and all that.  And then he showered and packed up and I took him home. 

It was, we both agreed, a fantastic evening....despite the coughing fit and my roiling guts.  And we're both looking forward to doing it again. 

POLT