An Utterance, information, don't mince words (Part 55)...

TMI Tuesday

1. Define "infidelity" as it relates to a relationship. Have you ever been guilty of infidelity? Have you ever been the victim of infidelity? Have you ever been a participant in someone else's infidelity? I think "infidelity" is being unfaithful to your partner in your feelings. Having sex with someone else isn’t necessarily a part of it, but feeling love for someone else, when you’re already with someone, is definitely part of it. I don’t believe I’ve been guilty of it. I’ve not been a victim of it, to my knowledge. And I don’t believe I ever was a part of someone else’s infidelity.
EDIT to above: I've about this since I posted it, and think I need to add something. Infidelity also occurs when a couple is in an exclusive relationship and one has sex without the knowledge of the other. I was assuming, when I wrote above, that the relationship was not exclusive, like the relationship Freddie and i have. But if we were exclusive, and I had sex without his knowledge, yeah, that would be infidelity. HOWEVER, if we both agree to bring a third person into our bed for sex, and are both there, then no, to me that's not infidelity. (geez, who knows this would be so technical?)
2. What is the last thing you stole? Geez, I don’t know…a pen from work? No, how about a magazine I stole from a bookstore back in college. It was a gay porn mag and I was ashamed to buy it. But that was 18 years ago at least, when I still felt ashamed about being gay and before all the free porn on the Internet.
3. Name one place in your country that you have never been but would like to visit and why. San Francisco, just because it’s a center of gay life in America. And it's supposed to be beautiful.
4. What movies can you watch over and over again? Rules Of Attraction, The Birds, The (orignial)Poseidon Adventure, and various and sundry stimulating pornos.
5. Who is the last person you saw naked? Other than myself this morning, I guess it would have to be Freddie last weekend.

Bonus (as in optional): In honor of the 237 Reasons We Have SexTell us at least five but not more than ten reason you have had sex.

In the order they were listed, I’ll go with:

The person’s physical appearance truned me on.
I was horny.
It’s fun.
It feels good.
I was really aroused and wanted the release
The opportunity presented itself.
I wanted to please my partner.
I was bored.
I felt obligated to.
I wanted to feel good about myself.

I’d just like to mention, there was also this one listed: "Wanted to feel closer to God." I really wanna met the person who made someone feel THAT way!

And there was this one listed too: "It was an initiation rite to a club or organization". !!!! What type of clubs or organizations have THIS as an initiation rite, and why have I never heard of them before??? And WHY am I NOT already a member????????

POLT

"Billy, you're bleeding!" "That explains why it hurts." - Wiccan, Young Avengers #10